Somebody on That Internet (Guest Post).

Sheldon's note: Today's post is from a fan of the blog who recently contacted me, she wanted to tell her story of leaving Christianity, and coming to terms with being transgender. She wants to only be identified as Natasha.

On Christmas day 1995, I received my first computer. It was all mine, no censorship, no controls. In the beginning, I used it to play games, sooner or later burning it out, and progressing to other computers, like my sister's Windows 98. Parallel to my computer progressions were personal progressions. Most notably, at around ten years old I scoured the internet to find people who felt like I did, my first exposure to the term "transgender."

When I was twelve, my internet exploration expanded. I found my way to conspiracy sites and then back around to sites that promoted skepticism and critical thinking. It was a total paradigm shift, as between the ages of twelve and fourteen I went from a Noah's Flood-doubting Jesusite to a full-blown atheist. To be sure, it was mostly my initiative: I became active in questioning the things in the Bible that didn't make any sense (starting with the flood) and worked my way to the actual scientific questions of evolution and the big bang. I was absolutely relentless in this search for knowledge.

It was somewhere in the middle of that period of rapid change where Somebody On That Internet first showed his face.

When I started openly questioning the doctrines of Christianity, asking my parents to source their statements or tell me how things were the least bit rational, they had a curious defense: Somebody On That Internet must be training me to be anti-Christian.

During this period, I had no internet friends, it was just me and Google, plus occasional regular sites like Bad Astronomy. To them, being from a hardcore Christian culture, it must have made no sense for someone so young to be able to think for themselves, so they had to invent a villain who was trying to warp my mind.

Somebody On That Internet didn't just dabble in skepticism, however. Somebody On That Internet was also the first (and last) person to go around trying to convert people to transsexuality.

My first time coming out as transgender was in 2005, when I would have been between fourteen and fifteen. I had been caught "crossdressing" no less than four times over the preceding 7 years and they probably knew that even after the last time I didn't stop.

 In retrospect, they had to know. Like atheism, it was just a phase, they knew what I wanted more than I did, and it wasn't "to be a girl." After coming out as transgender, I was told that Somebody On That Internet was brainwashing me into bad things, first turning me into an atheist and then making me think I didn't want to be a boy. Clearly, Somebody On That Internet was a master of manipulation.

Subconscious Phone Conversations

I am proud to have yet another guest post published by my good blogging friend, Jonny Scaramanga of the blog Leaving Fundamentalism. In my early childhood, I spent time in the Assembly of God denomination, a Pentecostal organization.

In my guest post, titled Subconscious Phone Conversations, I talk about what my first "speaking in tongues" experience was like at age 11.

Here's an excerpt from the post:

I felt this strong, compelling urge to go forward, it felt like it almost wasn't even my choice to go up there, like I was a piece of metal being drawn to the altar by a powerful electromagnet. I get up there, and there are about 7 or 8 people praying, singing, and yes, speaking in tongues. I spend a good deal of time in intense prayer, the kind where you become so focused on your praying that everything around you kind of melts away, you wouldn't notice if the building collapsed around you. 

Guest Post: 20 Things God Wants You To Know About Him

 Yahweh, Lord Almighty, took a few minutes out of his busy day and compiled this list so that you can worship Him that much better:

1. I hate the gays, but love their porn.
2. Jesus, I think he could’ve done better while he was on Earth. Maybe more card tricks.
3. I hate Chik-fil A. Their food is terrible.

5. I’m a compulsive cleaner (the real reason for The Flood).

Guest Post: When Your Family Becomes Your Enemies

Today's post was sent to me by a regular reader of the blog. This reader wishes to stay anonymous, and after reading this post, you will understand why. 

His account of his life is shocking and heartbreaking, but unfortunately, it's the cold, cruel reality for some LGBT people in the US who grew up with a fundamentalist, and/or homophobic family. This post may be difficult to read for some of you in my blog audience:


There comes a time in almost every LGBT person's life that they end up coming out of the closet, either by their own choice or by force (someone finding out and blabbing their fat chops through familial gossip chains), perhaps internet history, whatever.  When your family aren't that religious to begin with, pagan (such as Wiccans, love me some Wiccans) or just flat out atheist, Houston, we have a problem.  Yes, I'm talking about the religious nut jobs in which you would think they would have been sent to a psychiatric inpatient ward with the straight jacked sewn on indefinitely.

Needless to say, since the batshit insane, psychopathically inept and stupid of the families are the ones that we have to worry about the most, including Mormons and Evangelicals but no single sect of Christianity is immune to harsh treatment to LGBT homophobia and outright bigotry.  This even sadly includes the Jews who should know better.  Jews that read ancient Hebrew don't typically have this problem, however, still not immune to homophobic bigotry.
Your parents of all people are supposed to love you unconditionally.  

Though like an article I read on the web elsewhere, "I'm Christian, unless you're gay", the title and content of the article ring completely true to my ears.   I'm gay, raised Jewish and converted Mormon.

Aside from having been excommunicated from the Mormon church and (oddly enough) the Jewish community as a whole, I've also been disowned by my family, having had both parents tell me they never loved me and never wanted to see nor hear from me ever again.  The most memorable quote comes from my dad, "You'd be better off dead" then my mother, "I've never loved you and now I know why.  It was God telling me you'd turn out an evil gay."  Oh and let's not forget my aunt after my cousin and some of his friends attempted to kill me, "Call us and let us know when you're going to kill yourself so we can celebrate".  

And yes, I tried pressing charges against my attackers and would be murderers, however, the police report (Sherwood, AR, USA) listed me as the attacker because I shoved and threatened to testify against me should I attempt to press charges. Needless to say, I tried to press charges, no lawyer was willing to take my case.

It was bad enough growing up knowing that I had a different attraction than the rest of my family and everyone else I knew. Growing up, I had a secret interest in guys, knew this around the age of 5 honestly and it's not changed.  So no, it's not something I just decided one morning over a bowl of cereal, who the hell in their right mind would decide to be the most hated and oppressed kind of person in the world? 

 Screw that, if I could flip a switch and "Decide" to be straight, I would've done it a long, long, long time ago.  It would've saved me a lot of stress, pain, trauma and heartache.  It would've also prevented 3 failed suicide attempts during my young teenager years, needless to say all a whole bottle of aspirin did to me was make me very sick and weak a couple days, the copious amounts of meth just made me stay up and hyper for a week and the crack, well, let's just say I felt really damn good but didn't do much else.  Never had the balls to slice myself.

So aside from growing up thinking that I'm a horrible person, listening to sermons at church from both familial religions (Jews and Mormons) on how gays are evil, sinful people doomed to an eternity of torture in hell, or just rot where the worm never turns away from the grace of God (depends on which side of the family we're talking about here).

I'm going to have to say that I felt ashamed of myself.  I hated myself.  I saw myself as evil, vile and sinful.  I was miserable growing up as a child because I knew I was different and the anti-gay preachers sending my family into a mullet fantasia, thumping their bibles like the monster truck enthusiasts they are, I was surrounded by people who agreed with sermons about how gays should be publicly executed, sitting right there listening to my family chime in on how much they think people like me should be outright killed.  Again, I was just a child.

Imagine a 5 or 6 year old child, sitting in a church and listening to how everyone wants people like him dead.  If that's hard for you to imagine, then imagine this.  A black child in the middle of a KKK meeting.  It's hurtful to the child.  Now I will grant you that the black kid in the KKK meeting isn't exactly the same, because obviously the KKK aren't family with the black kid.  However, being a gay kid in the middle of your own family's church listening to your family and church's pastor/bishop/rabbi preach hatred towards people like you, people that have the same urges as you, you gather quick that you need to STFU and keep yourself secret.

I kept hearing from my family throughout my entire childhood, "You're so anti-social, it's not healthy.  You're always staying to yourself and never talking."  Yeah, I was a quiet child because I didn't want to speak, I was afraid of my very own family and when I was religious, afraid for my own soul.  I was afraid of everyone and myself and I hated myself. 

 I wanted to change, but I couldn't.  I didn't want to be different.  I didn't ask to be this way, I just was and am. Do you know what it's like to be kicked out of your home when you're still in school?  I'm not talking about college, i'm referring to junior high and high school ages.  I was 15 when I was kicked out of my parent's house because I was insinuated as being gay by one of my cousins who told his mom (one of my aunts) who told my mother who had my father confront me about it, punch me in the face, gave me a black eye.  I was then grabbed by the backside of my neck, dragged out of the house and shoved out.  Told that if I set foot back I'd be killed.

I've been on my own since I was 15.  I kept up with school because honestly, free lunch program meant free food.  Summer vacations kinda sucked and I won't get into tell you how many people I've slept around with (while being underage mind you) just to have a bed to sleep in at night and for a few bucks spending cash.

Can you imagine your own child as a young teenager, still in school and having to whore themselves out for money, food and a place to sleep?  I would assume that it'd be a parent's worse nightmare to know their child has no roof over their head, nowhere to stay and having sex with random strangers for money because they need to.

So you really want to know what kind of damage religion in general has on families?  It wasn't me being gay that brought so much hurt upon my earlier years, it was religion itself.  I would've been glad to have not been raised to hate myself and fear for my life from my family and friends.  I would've been more than happy to have had an easier time in high school and not have had to drop out of high school to find a job and finally start getting on my feet for a change. 

 I would've loved to have had a supportive family that would've accepted me for who I am.
I can't write anymore on this, sorry guys.  Included are some images I took of some of the scarring I have.  Triangle on the left hand, stab wound to the face and a bullet wound in the abdomen and will leave you with that.

Evangelicals are Excited that Science is Wrong Again!

Andromeda or just another satanic trick?

Milky Way Galaxy May be Less Massive than Originally Thought, and Evangelicals are Exuberant

Antioch, Arkansas New research from the University of California  suggests that  the Milky Way Galaxy may possess substantially less mass than  previously thought.  The Scientific School  for Theologically Universal Presuppositional Intellectual Discoveries (SSTUPID) immediately issued a policy statement regarding this dramatic  change in secular scientific dogma. Here is their statement in its entirety.

*****

Science has once again proven itself just another error prone, sin-based mistake Man has made. Man’s scientific system thought that the Milky Way had much more stuff in it, and now due to recent findings everything is up in the air.  Black is white,  cats are chasing dogs, and the mass of  our galaxy is now only  500 billion  to a trillion times that of our own sun. Next thing they’ll tell you will be that galaxies don’t even exist and we’re all just hanging around the Waffle House on a Sunday.

One Man's Childhood Experience With An ACE Cirriculm School: (Guest Post)

I was walking back from my village shop with a loaf of bread. Like always, I was staring at the ground, so I didn’t see the group of girls coming the otherway. I jumped when one of them spoke.

“Jonny, do you know Esther?”

A girl was speaking to me. I almost convulsed with the adrenalin. Then a voice completely alien to mine escaped my lips, at once threatened and aggressive.

“Yeeeaahh,” I grunted. The girls burst into laughter and walked off. One did an impression of my voice as they went. I returned to staring at the floor and walking home.

This was the result studying alone, in silence, being constantly told how evil the outside world is, for four of my most formative years. I could talk to grown-ups, of course, “Yes, Mrs. Johnson”, “I’m sorry, Mrs. Johnson”, “You’re right, Mrs. Johnson”. But people my own age? Those ones who were trying to drag me to hell with them? They were terrifying.

Jesusless Beginnings

I was adopted into a Catholic home at the tender age of 2 months. From the get-go I
was raised Catholic.

My mother, had been a Lutheran her whole life up until she married my father, who had
actually been in Seminary in preparation to be a priest.

She used her wiles to talk him out of that; and as penalty got to be Catholic.

Being raised as Catholic was about like you'd expect. Sunday masses, altar boy duty,
Catholic schooling up to the eighth grade.

There was a time in my life where I took it very seriously. But that time started to fade
away as I got older and started thinking for myself more.

I had the usual epiphanies of anti-faith I'm sure. All the science I was learning clashing
with biblical teachings. The money I got to handle as part of my altar boy duties, and
some questions about where it went (The whole church 'franchise' fee disconcerted
me to no end at the time). Things that I wasn't willing to discount simply because of
my 'faith' in the almighty.

So in a confrontation that was surprisingly non-exciting; I stood in the doorway to our
tv room and declared myself an atheist to my parents. I think I was 18 or so. I can't
remember for sure.

And that's the story of how I got here, to Atheist Land.

But that doesn't begin to cover the baggage, and internal struggles that go on to this
day; much in thanks to all that early church teaching.

At first, after that day I declared independence from my religion; I would still often pray
little prayers for things. I'd still attend church with my parents on the major holidays like
Easter and Christmas, I'd still take communion. Why? Well at the time it felt better to
go along with it all. I didn't want to isolate my parents completely on the whole matter,
and while I was in the church, I didn't want people to think I was a dick for sitting down
during communion and not going up with everyone else.

My herd was doing it, so I still did it too.

As the years went by, and I moved away, it was easier to separate things. I didn't go
anymore, and I avoided the subject for the most part. When it did come up, I feigned
being Agnostic. Saying that I didn't believe in god, but I wasn't sure what I did believe
in. Describing myself as a 'seeker of spiritual truth'. What bullshit that was.

I just didn't want to make waves still. It still bothered me when people's faces fell a little
bit when I would tell them I didn't believe in fuck all as far as god and religion. I always
felt like they were so disappointed in me, and it made me feel bad.

Eventually I outgrew that too. At least as far as lying about being Agnostic. At this
point, I just ignored the subject altogether. It seemed easier.

It hasn't been until the last five years or so, where I actively identify myself as an
Atheist. The death of my father in 2005 no doubt making it a little easier for me. Not
that he didn't know how I really felt; just as far as the tension it generated even as the
subject itself was avoided.

Boy, what a short twenty years or so road that was.

I won't lie to you, there is a small part of me that misses it. The group activity, the rituals
that I was oh so familiar with, the music, the pageantry.

But I know it all for what it is. Just a big control game, a money game, a political game.

At least that's my take on it. And, coincidentally, how I'm raising my kids to think about
it; thus generating some interesting side issues of it's own.

Which I'll save for another time.

Cheers, to being a cowardly atheist.





Fred Robel is a married father of three, living in Northern Michigan, working as an
aircraft inspector; with a non-paying side job as a writer/blogger.

His poetry and serialized story blog can be found at Fritz 365 , and his seldom updated thoughts on things, life, and stuff can be found at Warthhog Worries

He has three books published currently:

Fritz 365, A Year in Poetry

Kisses, Blood, Kerosene & Silk- A Man & Dog In the Desert

Tales of the Wrench - Stories and Verse Inspired by a Life of Aviation

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Scholar Awarded Templeton Prize for Proving Jesus' Virgin Birth

The Templeton Prize Awarded to Dr. Deepak Oz Mountebank

 Dr Mountebank

The Templeton Prize, the annual award given to one who has “made an exceptional contribution to affirming life’s spiritual dimension,” was awarded to Dr. Deepak Oz Mountebank today for his groundbreaking work in facultative Parthenogenesis. Dr. Mountebank awoke this morning by the Templeton Prize team holding a gratuitously large check for 1,100,000 sterling (approximately 1.8 million US dollars). The researcher quickly placed his spectacles on and surveyed the smiling faces and camera crew. “At first I feared for my life,” stated Dr Mountebank. “Then I saw the check, and knew I hit the proverbial pay dirt.” 

Dr Mountebank’s paper, Facultative Parthenogenesis and the Virgin Birth of Jesus, took the faith-based science world by storm earlier this year. It was first printed in the religiously-reviewed Journal of Speculative Biology. Since then a host of other periodicals such as The Metaphysical Review, The International Apologetics Society and Theoretical and Applied Dogma have confirmed Dr Mountebank’s central thesis: Jesus Christ was born of a virgin via the well know biological process known as facultative Parthenogenesis.

Facultative Parthenogenesis, broadly speaking, is when a captive female of the species produces an embryo from an egg with no input from a male. While the process is not uncommon in the plant world and in some invertebrates, there are some examples of Parthenogenesis happening with creatures of the higher orders. For instance, scientists have discovered through genetic testing that some female wild snakes have been found to produce offspring without the aid from a counterpart. Even the common barnyard chicken can produce viable eggs without a cock-a-doodle-doo.  – Dr Mountebank

The granting of the award created quite a stir amongst those who follow the Templeton Prize. March is the traditional time that the august honor is given, but the committee thought that an important paper such as Facultative Parthenogenesis and the Virgin Birth of Jesus warranted an extra prize this year. Dr Mountebank humbly agreed with them.

On the matter of how Dr Mountebank came to the conclusion that Jesus’ birth was caused by this biological process the researcher stated, “I prayed about it, and the Holy Spirit ministered to me.” Indeed, the other researchers who corroborated the findings also found that the Holy Spirit revealed the mystery to them after a few minutes of intense reflection.

Sheldon's note: The above post is a guest post by Andrew Hall of the blog Laughing In Purgatory, and is a work of satire. I have enjoyed reading his blog for several months now, it reminds me of an atheist version of The Onion. I'm honored to have him write a guest post for Ramblings of Sheldon. Pay his blog and Google + page a visit, you won't regret it.....